Monday, March 30, 2009

Slips & Vulnerability

I think the thing that subconciously gets to me the most about slips, and I’ve read other web posters saying this, is how vulnerable a woman looks in her slip. When she’s standing there in front of you in that thin little drape of silk and lace, she’s exposed to all the raw passions of a man, and there’s nothing she can do about it. I know it’s very politically incorrect to say this, but have women not seen the lust and gleam in a man’s eyes when he really wants you? The hunger? And don’t you really long for a man to look at you this way? And don’t you know when you’re exposed to him in all your sweet femininity, he will?
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Sunday, March 15, 2009

Another Post About My Wife

This happened probably over 20 years ago. My wife and I were both up early one morning getting ready for work. As she was getting ready, she was going about the bedroom and the house in a very slinky, lacy, white nylon slip that clung like creamy liquid to her every curve. She was a doll! It just so happened that we were having a contractor over later that morning to give us an estimate on some work to be done to our kitchen. Chances were that I might leave before he arrived, but my wife would likely still be home before heading to work. A terrible thought entered my mind. I told her PLEASE, PLEASE, if the contractor shows up before you leave, please don’t go to the door in your slip! I was half joking, but in a way, I had a serious knot in my stomach. It was strange, I was worried, but then also a bit thrilled by the idea. She assured me that she would never do such a thing. If you’ve read previous posts, you know I have encouraged her to take coy risks in her slip in the past, and I could imagine her doing it. Well as it turns out, I put an idea in her head. She told me about it that night after we returned from work. She had thought about what I said and concluded she could never do something like that, and almost laughed. But then she said she thought more, and it started to seem almost comic and sexy. She wondered if she might dare do such a thing. We knew this contractor personally for a couple of years. He was a nice guy. My wife knew that if there was ever a man she could take such a risk with and tell me about it later, it would be him. He was very gentle and polite. Not the kind to take advantage of a situation. But he was also a big, rugged looking fellow and the thought of walking around in front of him in her slip seemed very intriguing and taboo. She could just imagine some of the things that would be going through his mind, and she knew it would cause her to feel very feminine and sexy. She almost talked herself out of it, but left her dress off anyway. When the doorbell rang, she said. “why not?” and went to the door in her slip. Of course, he seemed a bit stunned when she answered the door, turned visibly red and stuttered a little bit. But she went ahead and asked him in. They stood in the living room a for minutes and talked just about the work at hand, never once either of them mentioning her state of undress. She said she started feeling very sexy, like total femme fatale, but tried to remain very casual. Meanwhile, she noticed how his eyes were going all up and down her while he somewhat nervously talked about business. They walked into the kitchen together, her just a short step ahead of him and easily within his touch had he decided to do so. But he made no advance on her. They talked in the kitchen for a few minutes as he prepared his estimate. Never once did anything happen, but she noticed that he was fidgety, and kept turning to look at her quite attentively. When it was time to leave, he simply shook her hand, but she noticed  it was quite a tight squeeze and he seemed to allow his hand to linger overly long. When she told me about it that evening, my heart almost broke my rib cage!
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Wednesday, February 18, 2009

Real beauty. Where is it?

Something I’ve not mentioned nearly frequently enough on this blog. That is how beautiful a slip can be. Please, someone tell me that you cannot look at the creamy fabric, the delicate lace, and not see one of the most beautiful articles of apparel one has ever seen. It defies my comprehension how a woman can put one on, and not feel extremely beautiful and seductive. I guess I’m just a romantic at heart. I love women to be feminine. I love being made, consequently, to feel like a man. Where is all the beauty and romance that used to go with our attaction to one another. I miss it. I wish there were other men and women who did, too.

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Saturday, October 18, 2008

My wife, the seductress

I married in the 1980’s, and my wife learned how I loved slips soon after we met and began dating. She was a little puzzled by it at first, but she eventually began to understand the sex appeal of it. She would come home at night, immediately take off her dress, and spend the rest of the evening going around the house in her slip. She was a cute little dish, and she had the prettiest, laciest, silkiest, slips to wear around me. There was lots of nice cuddle time. What was most fun and daring was the first year or two we were married, we lived in a small apartment. There was a rather handsome young single guy about my age who lived next door. The morning paper would be thrown right up against our door. I would encourage her to open the door in her slip and get it just in the hope that he might see her. Other times at night,  I’d leave the lights on and the cutains and blinds open about the time I knew he be arriving home from work. My wife would be very casually walking around the apartment in her slip. She was thrilled by the idea of being a seductive tease, and even though I knew it was a dangerous idea, the very danger of it thrilled me. I WANTED her to be seen.
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Sunday, October 7, 2007

My Return Visit

As you can tell from reading my blog, most of my slip memories and impressions date back to my boyhood and young adulthood. Slips were more prevalent then and a woman is more likely to let her guard down around a young fellow than a mature, adult, male. Most of my experiences over the past 20 to 25  years have in some way involved my wife. I’ve been awfully nostalgic about the old days when the chance to catch a woman in her slip was always a possibility. However, there is one episode that took place as an adult that is among my most treasured. Back in the 1980’s I worked in a large office pool setting. I was in my late 20’s and still a relatively newly married man. It was late one afternoon when I decided to leave work for the day and the entire office was almost vacant. Almost, in that there was one straggler left. She was tall, slim, attractive with  dark shoulder length hair, and a member of middle management at the company. A very pleasant and friendly woman, a mother of 3 children, and had in many ways, a very warm, caring, personality toward all her co-workers. I can’t say I ever had feelings for her, but I thought of her as a very sweet woman. She was in her late 30’s, perhaps right at 40. She may not have even been aware of when I left the office, and certainly thought she was alone during the moments I was heading for my car. For some reason I cannot recall now, I realized I needed to go back into the office before leaving. After going in, I realized that the lady was still there, and being on friendly terms with her, I quickly ducked by her office to give a short goodbye. Both of us found ourselves in a situation we didn’t expect. “Nancy” was standing a few steps behind her desk with her dress off taking another dress from a hanger to put on. She turned and saw me only a second after I walked in her door. She flushed, and I probably did too, then said in a very embarassed way that she was changing before going to some after work event, and had felt sure the office was empty. I was a little shocked and didn’t know what to say because, even though I was secretly thrilled with the situation, it was totally unexpected and I was unprepared to have any kind of cool reaction. She sensed my fluster and hung her dress back on the hook. In fact, she almost acted as though she felt sorry for me in my embarassment.  She stepped out from around the desk very calmly while still maintaining a few feet of distance between us and preceeded to tell me how it was alright, and how there was no reason to feel awkward in the situation. But she was wearing the most beautiful, creamy, white slip, and she just stood there right in front of me, almost as if she were doing it on purpose to calm me. We both stood there several moments and she engaged in casual conversation, always keeping a few steps of space between us. I attempted to speak normally to her, but needless to say, my body was pitching internally as I took in her pretty form. After a few moments, I excused myself and left, but all the way to my car, all the way home, I thought about her, how she looked, and how I wanted to turn around and go back. Just as sexy, I was wondering what she was thinking about the whole episode. Did she enjoy it? Was it something she was going to think about tonight and for days to come? Did she like having a young man 10 years younger than herself watching her and talking to her while she was in her slip? We never brought it up together again in the time we worked togerther, but once in a while she’d give me a cute smile like she was acknowledging we had a shared intimacy. The opportunities we have so often catch us unaware. I sometimes wonder what might have happened had I been bolder, had taken her in my arms, had said something very sweet to her about the way she looked, the way she felt, and the manliness she made me feel.
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your emails

Some of you have connected to me through the Yahoo group “Amateur Slip Models”, and have sent some very complimentary emails about the comments I make on this blog. THANK YOU!!!!! A couple of you have mentioned that I am right on in what I’ve written, and  that I’ve said some things that they’ve often thought, but didn’t know exactly how to put into words. It’s good to know that I’m on the same wavelength with some of you. My email is commissar@yahoo.com but if you have a comment to make about the blog it would be even better if you could share it with all the readers (this can be done anonymously) as a comment.

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Saturday, October 6, 2007

I Welcome Comments

To those of you who read this blog, I welcome your replies to what I write. Not only do I encourage you to respond to my points, I also STRONGLY encourage you to make your own comments about slips in the comment section of each entry. I would love to have an ongoing dialogue about slips with people who are interested in this subject, and I see this blog as a way to create that.
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Monday, September 3, 2007

Youthful Hormones

When I was a high school graduate in 1975, I visited several college campuses in the area during the early summer to make a decision as to where I would continue my education. During a trip to the Nashville area, I stayed at a muti story hotel a mile or so from Vanderbilt University. I drove from home alone and checked in that evening. After stepping out for a late dinner, I returned to the hotel and took the elevator to my floor. While walking down the hallway to my room around 10:30, a lady stepped out of her room to get ice from a machine only a few steps away. She had blonde, shoulder length hair and was probably around 40 years of age. She wore a white slip and seemed completely unconcerned about her state of undress. She looked at me briefly, gave an acknowledging smile, and retrieved a pail of ice. Her door remained open, and there appeared to be no one else in her room. I watched her, of course, and as an 18 year old was mesmerised by what I saw. She went back into her room and closed the door behind her as I unloocked the door to enter mine. For many long moments afterward, I thought about her. I approached my door, opened it, and looked down the hallway toward hers. In my youthful fantasies, I thought about approaching her, knocking on her door, and perhaps being invited in. Had she wanted to be seen by me? I fell asleep alone that night and never saw her again, but I’ve always remembered her. If she were 40 then, she’d be over 70 now, a woman of a generation who understands the feminine power of a slip. Every woman is beautiful in a slip, and if I were to see her now, at her age, I would tell her how womanly and desirable she remains when dressed that way.
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Monday, August 27, 2007

To All Self Righteous, Moralistic, Prissy People!

There was a time when I was embarassed by this fetish. I’m not any longer. What could be more innocent or more normal than a man looking at and enjoying the sight of a pretty woman wearing a very beautiful, feminine, and delicate article? The women are covered, and so what if what they are wearing brings out the most attractive  aspects of themselves that nature gave them, both inner and outer? I challenge any prude out there to seriously debate me on this subject!
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Monday, August 20, 2007

Nice pictures, so you’ll understand.

I thought I’d mention a couple of sites that have pictures of women wearing slips that are most endearing. One is slipland.net

http://www.slipland.net/

 

The other is sliplandgalleries.com

 

http://www.sliplandgalleries.com/

 

Both offer tasteful photos that capture the sensual allure of women in slips. One look at these and you may became as captivated with the subject as I.

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